A Year in Review: 2016

37844_134897239874261_7602823_nHappy New Year, or as I like to say, Happy Nude Year! It’s the time for reflection and for starting anew. I have been reflecting on this past year and I would like to share my experience with you.

2016 had a theme of self-care, self-preservation and incubation. While I accomplished quite a bit in my career, I was on a quest for personal growth and development. In 2016, I transitioned out of running the Chicago Starlets and went headlong into production of Le Nu, my most daring show to date. I then began production of Unbridled at Untitled, a weekly show at a beautiful supper club in River North Chicago. This was in addition to our weekly Big Sexy Show at The Comedy Bar on Saturdays and booking entertainment for the Drifter. I also started a podcast called ‘Revealing’ on the Yak Channel (run by James Van Osdol and Amy Guth), continued to produce Naked Girls Reading and was able to partner with Leslie Zemeckis for 2 events in Chicago and LA, and finally created my fan club on Patreon. I also was part of the production for Halloween at the SOHO House and began a new type of event called HUSH.  As you can see, I was, and still am, very busy. Because of this, some things needed to change.

I became a little overwhelmed in doing all of these things and the stress really took a toll on my health and my relationships. It was not a good scene. I finally threw up my hands around May and began going to yoga. Traditionally, I always hated yoga, preferring pilates. Yoga is hard. Not because of the poses, but because of the mental energy that has to happen. I was always distracted and a little angry if I couldn’t do the poses. I would judge myself if I couldn’t do something and what’s worse, I would judge others. But, this time, I found some calm, some freedom and compassion for myself and others. I realized that I had a very negative person inside of me that needed to be put to rest. My running narrative of ‘I’m an idiot’, ‘I can’t do that’, ‘I’m not pretty enough’, ‘I’m fat’, ‘I’m not this or that’, etc was just too much. It was all consuming and not productive. It wasn’t serving me, my relationships or my art. I continue to do yoga now 3-4 times a week and it is a time for me to get in touch with my body, take a break from the noise, and learn about myself. I realized that the poses are just physical representations of our spirit and how we handle challenges in our life. When they call it a ‘practice’, they mean it.

My next step of self-care was to step away from teaching. I took July and August completely off. Those of you who teach, know the amount of energy that goes into it. It is a very generous act and you must be full before you can fill others. My reserves needed refilling. I then started just doing monthly workshops at Studio L’amour, in addition to traveling and doing some guest master classes.  I felt so much better! Turns out, I actually DO like teaching!

Then, I felt my body needed some fine tuning. In September, I turned to acupuncture. This idea came to me in yoga. I had never thought of it before, but my health was not where I wanted it to be and needed to try something else. It’s a weird practice, but it makes a lot of sense. It’s all just based on blood flow and nourishing the blood. I currently go once a week and it’s a great time of relaxation and meditation. I highly recommend this to anyone who has stress disorders.

Emotionally, I’ve been through a lot this year. It was my most successful year as a producer and a performer, but internally, I was struggling. Constantly comparing myself to others. Feelings of jealousy creeped in (oh that is a an ugly feeling). I felt like I wasn’t good enough. Like people didn’t like me. Like I was never going to ‘make it’. I lost the plot, as the Brits say. I questioned why I was doing what I was doing and did I even like it? Perhaps this is my version of a mid-life crisis. I didn’t seek crazy adventures, I sought out building myself a good foundation so I could continue having crazy adventures! In addition to the yoga and acupuncture, I also did a lot of traveling. I was able to get out at least once a month and just travel to travel. It wasn’t for a show. I didn’t hustle, because for the first time in my career, I was actually making money in my home town. I was able to experience cities and not worry about performing on strange stages and changing in crowded tiny dressing rooms. I did a little bit of travel for performance when I felt it was worth it for me, whether financially or just because I thought it would be fun. Performing because I WANTED to, not because I needed to so I could pay the bills. Very different motivations and very different feelings for me on the stage. I found the love again.

The joy I feel on the stage is so strong right now. I love it. I actually think that to myself while I’m performing now. I bask in the glow of the lights and your love and energy. Ringing in the new year was so magical for me. The energy in the room was so overwhelming and I got to take that joy and give it right back to you. What a treat.

I write this because I want you to know that it’s not all sparkles and feathers. Just because I may look like I’ve got it all together, doesn’t necessarily mean that for me, or anyone else you might see on Instagram. I’m working on life, just as you are. I’m working to find my best path, just as you are. I want to encourage you to keep working and do what you need to do to make it work. It is not easy, but it is necessary. If we have learned anything in 2016, it’s that life is short. Make it what you want and be willing to fight for it.

Wishing you all the best in 2017!
Michelle L’amour
‘The Most Naked Woman’


Chicago Halloween

Ooh baby, have I got some tricks and treats for you! So many things for you to do! All sexy. All fun..

menagerie-flyer_2October 27 – Menagerie at Untitled

Bring your sexy beast self to Untitled and join this cast of animals. Lions, and Tigers, and Bears…Oh MY! This show is going to be so fun and SO sexy. Also, the music is fantastic. You just can’t go wrong with bands like the Scorpians, NIN and Hendrix! Get your tickets to this event now and start your Halloween weekend off right! I’ll be premiering a brand new act as a Cheetah Mistress. Oh yes!


Then on October 28th, join me for Naked Ghouls Reading at Studio L’amour. This is our annual scary story showcase. The question is not what costume I will wear, but what costume will I not wear. It’s all about accessories for this one! Get your tickets now! Costuming encouraged but not required.

Then, there’s Oct 29th at the SOHO House. You’ve got to be a member to come or at least know someone who is. We’re doing a ‘Devil in the White City’ theme, complete with creepy Holmes. [shivers]

In the event that you can’t make that, head on over to Big Sexy Show at the Comedy Bar. That’s always a crowd pleaser.

And then, darlings, I rest. Happy Halloween!


I’m back from Vegas in one piece! Thank goodness!  It gets a little scary going thru those mountains!

Now that I’m back, of course, I have big plans for this week.

12983199_515210211999014_2963992855023092214_oApril 21 is Aphrodisiac, a very special edition of Unbridled: Spectacle at Untitled (And coincidentally my new tag line. More on that later). We will celebrate the senses and you will be fed fruit and chocolate all while being entertained by daring dancers. We will also be featuring a pearl fashion show with pearls by Bourdage Pearls and Gems. Showtime is 10pm. Bring your dancing shoes!

Photo by Mike White.


Then, on April 23, we have a very special edition of Big Sexy Show at the Comedy Bar. We’ll be doing a Big Sexy Fundraiser for the Alzheimer’s Association. We have 8 special guests for this show coming in from all over North America. It’s a great chance to see the burlesque that’s happening in this continent! Make sure to get your tickets and support this wonderful cause!


First, all new classes begin this week at Studio L’amour. Register for class now and kick those resolutions in the booty!

WRCW-FBSecond, Wiggle Room is returning on a monthly basis at City Winery! Our first show is this Friday, January 15th, with Ginger Valentine, Lady Ginger, Adam Burke, Marty De Rosa, and Natalie Jose! Oh, and I’ll be there too! And we’re adding a live band to the mix! So excited for this new imagining of Wiggle Room. Get your tickets now!

BSS-FBAnd, finally, we’re starting a new weekly show at Comedy Bar called Big SEXY Show hosted by the delightful dandy, Sammy Tramp! It’s got burlesque, comedy, and variety. Our first show is January 16th and we’ll be there every Saturday after that! Tickets available now!